NLP and Covert Hypnosis are HUGE subjects. For many these amazing subjects become just a mental exercise and people never, ever use what they learn. For many it’s really just a simple case of knowing where to start….
3 Steps to do it all wrong:
Step 1: Read and listen to every piece of information you can.
You will never ever be able to master it unless you know everything there is to know about it. Also, make sure you get everyone’s opinion on every aspect of the same technique just in case.
Step 2: Pick random elements to practice.
Once you know everything you think you could know, choose a random skill to practice. Structure isn’t important. And the difficulty of this random skill is also irrelevant.
Step 3: Do everything out of context
Make sure you use that skill as much as you want regardless of the context of your communication. Bring it up as soon as you can.
The 3 Steps to Success:
Step 1: Understand the context of your communication.
Our personal interactions exist in a social context; Business, friendship and intimate relationship, just to name a few. The communication between participants tends to follow a general flow that is in context with that relationship. Pay attention to social contexts.
Step 2: Pick something easy to practice each day.
Pick a simple skill to apply that pertains to one or more contexts. Take for instance; eye accessing cues (see my article here to understand what that is). This applies to multiple social contexts.
Step 3: Build and learn that base skill.
Plan how you will practice the skill. For instance using eye accessing cues you could use the following PLANNED questions:
Personal Context: What is your favourite holiday destination?
Business: When was the last time you purchased something you really liked?
Relationship: When was the last time you really felt adventurous?
Reading about Covert Hypnosis is one thing, but doing is it WAY more fun!
Damon Laude www.SeductiveHypnosis.com
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Covert Hypnosis: 3 Important Things When First Learning NLP/Covert Hypnosis
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